Bi***es need to know when to cut their losses...
So this morning I was lying in bed, watching MOH, and I started thinking about the countless conversations I've had w/ my friends in the past week alone, about problems w/ men. After so many, the problems become monotonous and tend to run together. The longer I thought, the madder I became. My boyfriend was right: we do this to ourselves, "men only do what you let them. Whatever the man problem, big or small, it is easily solved by knowing when to move on. There's no knack for relationships, or no secret key to happiness w/ a significant other, u just gotta know when it doesn't fit. Consider a man an outfit. When its time to shop for something fabulous to wear for that gotta-be-there event, its life or death. We stress over it. It consumes your thoughts. We try on item after item till we find the perfect fit. Its not considered crazy to call in the "reserves", and scour some obscure shopping location you "heard this chick at work talkin about at work, you don't really know her like that, but you gon trust her judgement cuz she be lookin cute". Nor is it strange to rape the internet till we find exactly what we want. If we buy it and hate it, we stay home.
We live our lives in clothing, therefore, the attention the detail is absolutely necessary, however, consider this, "why is this same logic not applied to love?" How is it that we can be so cut-throat when it comes to just ONE outfit, but not when it comes to the ONE fit that you just might wear from now until forever?
P.S. Try not to buy anything you don't absolutely LOVE again. We grown ass women w/ the jobs to prove it, its about time our attire spoke more about THAT than our nocturnal activities.***The Queen***
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