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Metamorphasis

I have been feeling like a caterpillar for quite some time now...knowing that my life and experiences are necessary for the transformation ahead, yet I can't help yearning to feel my wings glowing in the sun!  I found a chart on pinterest, that broke down the different steps to spiritual awakening into 7 separate stages: Stage 1:  Unhappiness and Emptiness Stage 2:  Perception Shifts Stage 3:  Seeking Answers and Meaning  Stage 4:  Finding Answers and Experiencing Breakthroughs Stage 5;  Disillusionment and Feeling Lost Stage 6:  Deeper Inner Work Stage 7:  Integration, Expansion, Joy This was incredibly helpful in me figuring out exactly where I was in my journey; it also helped to appease my impatience by offering an explanation as to what's going on inside of me... According to this, I have left stage 5, that of "Disillusionment and Feeling Lost", and am now fully immersed in stage 6, my :Deeper Inner Work"...

Dream Catcher

Does anyone else wonder what happens when we sleep?  I have always been fascinated with the dream state, and its connection to our conscious lives.  We know that we dream; but what exactly is a dream?  My brain is so full throughout the day; constantly unfolding and rearranging thoughts every second of the day; therefore its hard to fathom that sleep is a mundane as to ONLY be providing rest to the body and mind...There has to be more to this process, and here are my thoughts on exactly what that is... Dream interpretation has long been a topic of discussion amongst the masses; since the beginning of time.  People have unceasingly sought council to determine what our subconscious mind is trying to say.  One thing can certainly be agreed upon, I DO think it is a means of communication with our higher selves.  Like meditation, it is a safe place to meet, and align our mental with our spiritual state.  The difference is, in a meditative s...

Queenkhira.com: It's a Thing Now!!

Yes my loves, This is NOT a TEST!!  I am LIVE, In FULL EFFECT, and over the moon with excitement!!  All things Queen Khira have finally found a home, and will all be housed together in one place.  There are some newly added little goodies on the site, all aimed at helping you become the absolute BEST version of yourself, and MAINTAINING your new found personal bliss.  Take a few minutes and give the site a spin. Below is a breakdown of what you can expect from Queenkhira.com.  Drop me a line on the site and let me know what you think, I would love to hear from you!  #queenkhira is an all access pass to fab on the go, sort of a website snack!😍  Much 💖 Always, and thank you in advance for your support.  1 dream down, 26 more to go!~The Queen~ 2019 QueenKhira.com: What to expect: Ascension   - Daily posts Monday-Friday; My personal thoughts, and feelings to inspire you      -1 Lipstick Diaries entry per week ...

Hold On..

Have you ever wondered why it is when we greet someone we care about we hug?  Why are we not simply by being in their company?  What is it inside us that compels us to join one body to another?  It's almost like a magnet, drawing you in... This is no mere coincidence, and does not happen simply because the individual is too irresistible not to touch...It is a genuine physical transfer of energy.  In addition to the tons of endorphins released, the embrace is literally putting a piece of yourself into another person, and vice versa.  You are able to FEEL the individual, from the inside out.  Our hearts and minds are totally in the know about this occurrence, which is why you feel "drawn" to the person to engage in this contact. Funny how our minds and hearts are full of information about things that are vital to our survival that we never contemplate or stop to think about.  While we may be performing an act that is seemingly second nature,...

Being Present

This Moment, the one happening right now, is ALL that there is.  Allow me to explain... Yes, there is a past, things that have already happened.  What must be understood about these events is, once they happen, they are OVER.  It's gone.  If it is any point in time that you are not actively engaged in, that point does not currently exist.  The principle is also works on the inverse; anything that has yet to occur, has yet to come into existence , and should have absolutely NO bearing on what is currently happening to you. Our past is a experienced-based tool from which to learn and grow FORWARD.  It is not meant to trap us or the people in our lives, preventing our best lives from being brought to fruition.  If there is something behind you, LET IT GO.  Grasp the lesson and understand that there is no going back.  On the same note, we must also do the same when it comes to anticipation of events yet to come.  Being wrapped...

FINALLY Let Go...

The Universe has been talking, have you been LISTENING??!!👀  I sure have, and my entire existence has been set on FIRE!!!  Its been so amazing, the feeling is ALMOST indescribable.  In a prior post titled "Perfect, Just the Way It Is " https://myflylifeatversailles.blogspot.com/2018/07/perfect-just-way-it-is.html  , we began to scratch the surface of the concept that all is just as it should be, and our job as humans is to start conciously feeling our way through life.  Today its time to talk about just how its done... Formerly known as Queen Skeptic, you should know I need HARD EVIDENCE before I can hop on board.  One thing you don't do is challenge the Universe!  As soon as I started focusing on my own individual happiness, and putting Love into every negative thought, my soul was set aglow!!  Of course, me being Petty Betty, could NOT resist putting my superpowers to the test.  I stated to the Universe that each time I saw a star...

Emotional Rollercoaster

Emotion  is any  conscious experience [1] [2] [3] characterized by intense mental activity and a certain degree of  pleasure  or  displeasure . [4] [5] Scientific discourse has drifted to other meanings and there is no  consensus  on a definition. Emotion is often  intertwined  with  mood ,  temperament ,  personality ,  disposition , and  motivation . [6]  In some theories,  cognition  is an important aspect of emotion. Those acting primarily on the emotions they are feeling may seem as if they are not thinking, but mental processes are still essential, particularly in the interpretation of events. For example, the realization of our believing that we are in a dangerous situation and the subsequent arousal of our body's nervous system (rapid heartbeat and breathing, sweating, muscle tension) is integral to the experience of our feeling afraid. Other theories, however, claim that emotion is separate ...

The Greatest Story Ever Told: The Missing Pages

Now this is what I’m talking about,  a little literary therapy!!  Our thoughts are complicated enough to keep straight, so why not write it all down?!  I am an avid believer in putting thoughts down on paper(obviously!), but the therapeutic benefits are phenomenal!! There are so many ways to keep a personal journal.  You can use it to record and interpret your dreams, it can be a place you write your goals/aspirations and begin to manifest them into real life; it can even be a place to vent frustrations.  Regardless of what you choose to write down, those blank pages will always be there for you. It’s the quiet, patient ear you have longed for in a friend, but with the added benefit of only giving you the response you want to hear.  It’s also a wonderful source of self-reflection and a way to watch yourself grow. Even the most novice of authors can keep a journal the emergence of the “bullet list journal”, in which case you are just listing off thoughts, id...

"I Think, Therefore, I AM."

The Universe Loves Me.  I KNOW this.  I have always known I was meant to be, COMPLETELY intentional.  Having this inside me all the time has made life that much easier to bear.  Let's not sleep, the reality we are all currently engaging in is a BBBBIIIITTTTCCCCHHHH!  All pun intended.  The saving grace of it all was to know that I was super-fantastic and receive my Jedi Powers before I turned 40. Listen, life is hard for  reason.  I saw a video that changed my life.  I refuse to speak on it, as its the type of thing that you MUST experience for yourself.  Its the kind of thing that will keep you asking questions as long as you live. This Story Made Me GREAT. I don't endorse, if it ain't about money, then it don't make SENSE #ABM4Life. However, People, this story is EVERYTHING.  It is the absolute culmination of exactly why life is so hard.  Choosing to believe it does nothing but make you live this life to the abso...

Carpe Diem!!

I gotta say folks, I have been feeling pretty damn good lately.😎  Why you ask?!!  It’s all because I have made a personal decision to live in the MOMENT.  What I define this as is doing exactly what I want from one day to the next.   I decided to consciously get out of my own way.  Everything we do in life is a decision.  I just choose now to make the ones that suit me FIRST.     My inaugural edict was wearing my crown everyday!👑😜   Even the most minut of details changes my whole day and perspective.  For example, I don’t eat whatever just because I am hungry.  I eat what I FEEL like eating.  When it comes to my family and home, I go about my tasks in the manner that best suits me.  It’s like we are all waiting for something amazing to happen to take grasp of the life we always wanted.  The fact of the matter is that we are the masters of our own individual universes and the ultimate creators o...