Versailles: The Life and Times of Queen Khira

  QueenKhira.com has always been a place for you to come for self-discovery.  It's meant to encourage you, push your boundaries, and provide much-needed respite from the programming reality offers.  I wanted to infuse this idea into your everyday lives, to make it organically apart of your daily design.  With that, Our Sitewide theme was born, I'm Doing THIS, for ME...  I still try not to be amazed at the perfection of a synchronistic moment, it's truly a remarkable feeling.  To discover your desired state of being, and to be able to return to it, whenever you desire, is REAL magic.  Ladies and Gentleman, it's time to embrace it as the new norm.  It's time to relax into the natural ebb and flow of life, relinquishing to control we never truly had...and why the Hell not?!  What's the alternative, badgering myself into an anxiety-filled submission, heavy with self-pity and disappointment?!  Yea, No.   In all things, there is Cosm...

The  Universe  is all of space and time and their contents, including planets, stars, galaxies, and all other forms of matter and energy. While the spatial size of the entire  Universe  is still unknown, it is possible to measure the observable  universe . So with that being said, and you knowing that the ENTIRE Universe exists within us, why are you still focused on all the things you CAN'T do??👀 There is no such thing as "easing" your way into destiny, you were meant to jump in head first.  Even if you have no idea of where you want to go or what you want to do, just move in the direction your passions take you.  Your heart most certainly knows the way.  The most important thing is to MAKE A MOVE.   Dreams are specific to an individual for a reason, because they belong to YOU !    There isn't another soul in existence who is responsible for bringing your dreams to life.  As a matter of fact it's ...

With an entire world to explore with ENDLESS possibilities, it’s about time we started to explore them, and each opportunity open to us.  Our minds are boundless, chomping at the bit to be taken places we never could have imagined... So how to we let go of reservations and take flight?! It all starts with knowing who you ARE and EXACTLY what it is you WANT.  Meditate on this concept, and continue to do so until you find the answer.  Once that concept is CRYSTAL clear, you can start pursuing those ideals.   Until these things are realized, take it one day at a time, one task at a time.  Eat what makes you feel good.  Wear the clothes that make you feel like a Star.  Take a few moments each night to envision the day you want to have and put those things into action; Start each day the way YOU want to. Intention prompts Action.  We constantly disappoint ourselves by simply not completing tasks we had our heart set on doing. ...

"All I do is WIN WIN WIN NO MATTER WHAT!!!!"  Yes!!! This is my new mantra!!  I'm sorry, but I just CANNOT stop smiling!!  I'm hoping that happiness is overly contagious for the rest of my life.  How great would it be for everyone you come in contact with to become infected with your JOY?! Oh wait, that is POSSIBLE!!! Smiling from the inside out is a concept I came up with to show just how possible it is to throw a little of your happiness over to the next man... Think about how your favorite song made you FEEL the first time you heard it.  Stay inside that feeling for a few minutes.  Now, think about how you felt when you learned all the words...Take that and let it spread all over your body, filling your heart with that original JOY. You got it?  Can You feel it?  Are you sparkling yet?!  You are? Ok perfect.   Now it’s time to take your show on the road... Let that song play over and over again as you go through your...

When we were kids, friendship was so simple.  If I gave you a bracelet, then it was ON; we were practically siblings from that point foward!!  If only it was still so cut and dry... Oh Wait, IT IS!!! Since starting my journey, I have noticed myself becoming agitated with friends and acquaintances I previously didn’t feel this  way about.  The source of my aggravation came from a place that was feeling like I was a much better friend and source of support to others than they are to me.  I was angry because I still have that childlike view of friendship, that I get what I GIVE.  Because I wasn’t feeling that reciprocation, I became imbittered, and started putting stipulations and regulations on myself and the level of friendship I would give out. This of course is TOTALLY INSANE.   What I decided to do after much back and forth with my higher self was to redefime the friendships/relationships in my life.  Just because you and I are friendly and acq...

Have you ever had something happen, either directly or indirectly, that shakes shit up in your world so much in that moment that it leaves you contemplating whether or not what just occurred was real?  As of late, this is a feeling that I have become all too familiar with. What I noticed happening was that I was allowing whatever happened to hijack my day and consume my energy.  In these moments, all I could feel myself yearning for was my routine and the things in everyday life that renew me everyday... So why wasn't I doing these things to get myself out of this weird space??!! That is the million dollar question.  That feeling of being stuck can be overwhelming; this is the opportune time for a reset...which is exactly what I did.  I began the day with meditation, as I felt completely disconnected from my higher self.  It was like remote viewing, I could see my higher self and that she was desperately attempting to communicate with me, but ...

"So when is the evolution over, like, when am I done with the process?  Am I finished, or am I done?!"  Well, the question was asked AND answered.  If that is a question that has been plaguing you, its OBVIOUS you are still undergoing transformation... When have you ever achieved a goal unbeknownst to you?  Its almost impossible to arrive at a destination and be completely unaware.  With this being said, when you have completed your journey, then YOU WILL KNOW.  Its not a secret.  In the meantime, your job is to sit back, relax, and enjoy the ride. You mean DO NOTHING?! Absolutely.  Sometimes the hardest thing in the world is being present and completely content with who you are in that particular moment in time.  Observe where you are right now and evaluate your journey this far.  Appreciate your growth and current situation, no matter what it may be because it is, in some way, apart of what's happening to you.  C...

Let's take a new approach to pain.  As a matter of fact, just negativity in general.  We know that if we control our breath in the heat of the moment, keeping our heart rate from elevating, its damn near impossible to get angry.  OK; so with that being said, why aren't we doing more to stay elevated?  Why are we so quick to lower our vibration to suit an undesirable situation?! A prime example of this is a breakup.  We don't eat, or the inverse, overeat; don't sleep, over analyze the relationship and how we performed.  We exhaust an enormous amount of emotion and energy on something that has ended.  Afterwards, we look just as crazy as we feel.  In any part of this process, had we just stopped for a moment to think about what we REALLY want out of those moments, perhaps the process could have been over SOOO much quicker. But What is it we are seeking in the midst of the breakup ritual??!!! The misconception is the belief that we are seek...

"If you build it, they will come."  This was the line from Field of Dreams that served as the catalyst  for everything that followed.  It was a voice, speaking to something from within the main character.  Otherwise, I doubt he would have constructed an entire baseball field based off a random voice he couldn't even determine was real.  I think about this ALL the time. You know, everything we want is within our reach.  That still small voice speaks to us all.  So why do we need to hear what we already know externally, and wait on that confirmation to pursue it?  I'm am passed by tired of not trusting myself and these impeccable instincts!! There is no limit to what I can dream up.  I don't know about the rest of you, but my Mind Palace is LAID!!!   I want my entire world to look just like that.  I have made a commitment to myself to make a little corner of my life resemble it each day.  Its amazing how much perspect...

Like a Moth to the Flame...people, YOUR ENERGY IS A BEACON.  In a world filled with darkness and pain, your light is the only thing leading the way.  This thought is so powerful, that sometimes, we get lost in the idea of being the beacon, we forget that we are also travelers on that dark road as well, and our flame is NOT everlasting. So what does that MEAN?  I'm glad you asked.  The thought behind this idea is, not to turn your flame down, however, but to make sure it is being protected and replenished so it may continue to shine.  So often, we get caught up in moments and things that happen to others, that it literally consumes us.  It becomes so real for us emotionally, its as if the event actually happened to US.   THIS IS A SERIOUS NO NO!!! The only way for your Energy to help and to heal is for it to stay focused on LOVE and continue to GLOW.  This cannot happen if you are lost in the emotion of a situation.  Understan...

I am my own EXPERT.  Yesss, I Fuck with me hard as Hell!!  I’m telling you right now, if you aren’t the expert of you, there is a SERIOUS problem to addr ess!! How can someone know more about you when there is absolutely NO ONE in this world who spends more time with you than yourself?!!   Invest a little energy into learning more about who you are and becomming the type of person you would like to befriend.  Hey, if you can’t stand you, why should anyone else?!!  The advantage of it being all about you is that you don’t have to worry about hurting anyone upon confrontation of things you don’t like.  There won’t be any outside opposition who don’t approve of your methods. By the time this is all said and done, you should become your own best friend.  Here you have an individual whose intellect perfectly mirrors your own, and should always have your best interest at heart.  Be honest and open.  Know yourself the way you know your fa...

Emotion  is any  conscious experience [1] [2] [3] characterized by intense mental activity and a certain degree of  pleasure  or  displeasure . [4] [5] Scientific discourse has drifted to other meanings and there is no  consensus  on a definition. Emotion is often  intertwined  with  mood ,  temperament ,  personality ,  disposition , and  motivation . [6]  In some theories,  cognition  is an important aspect of emotion. Those acting primarily on the emotions they are feeling may seem as if they are not thinking, but mental processes are still essential, particularly in the interpretation of events. For example, the realization of our believing that we are in a dangerous situation and the subsequent arousal of our body's nervous system (rapid heartbeat and breathing, sweating, muscle tension) is integral to the experience of our feeling afraid. Other theories, however, claim that emotion is separate ...

If only it were that easy...Oh wait, it is, through Meditation!  It’s no small coincidence that the word Medicine has the same prefix!  People, we have been told countless times of the overall benefits of Meditation, yet we hesitate in intergrating the practice into everyday life.  WHY??!! Answer:  It’s something about TRUE spirituality and connectedness that scares us all. Fear is a naturally imbedded defense mechanism meant to trigger response to a dangerous situation.  This, unfortunately is public knowledge, and has been weaponized to impede the individual’s inate desire  to reach beyond what is seen and search within for the answers we seek. I will use myself and an experience I had when I first started with my meditation practices. I was sitting completely relaxed, feeling the air around me; I thought, “I wonder what it would be like if my body was practically weightless like the air around me..”. Just as quickly as the thought was forme...

We all want to wear them, but dammit if they not a bitch to walk in!!  The most painful part of stepping into our true selves is having to deal with  aspects of ourselves that we never really examined. Yet while we are on this incredible journey, LIFE DOES NOT STOP HAPPENING.  I say this is because  while I am still growing into myself, BS is still BS.  The difference is that now I'm actually EXAMINING it.  Yup, I pick it up, turn it over.  All that. Everything happens for a reason, this we all know, so now I just want to get to the WHY.  Let me tell you something, BS examination is sooooo ANNNOOOYYYYIIINNNGGG!!  But I can't help it. This is why I say these big girl boots gotta GO!! Na, all jokes aside.  It is absolutely a %100 fact that once you KNOW, you cannot go back to the way things used to be.  No matter how much I try, old ways of thinking and handling certain situations just don't suit me anymore.  Every cha...

The Universe Loves Me.  I KNOW this.  I have always known I was meant to be, COMPLETELY intentional.  Having this inside me all the time has made life that much easier to bear.  Let's not sleep, the reality we are all currently engaging in is a BBBBIIIITTTTCCCCHHHH!  All pun intended.  The saving grace of it all was to know that I was super-fantastic and receive my Jedi Powers before I turned 40. Listen, life is hard for  reason.  I saw a video that changed my life.  I refuse to speak on it, as its the type of thing that you MUST experience for yourself.  Its the kind of thing that will keep you asking questions as long as you live. This Story Made Me GREAT. I don't endorse, if it ain't about money, then it don't make SENSE #ABM4Life. However, People, this story is EVERYTHING.  It is the absolute culmination of exactly why life is so hard.  Choosing to believe it does nothing but make you live this life to the abso...