Versailles: The Life and Times of Queen Khira

  Ok Bitches, I let ya'll live this BS ya'll call real life for quite some time... Now , I'm about to GO IN... Some of you guys are really out here losing what little minds ya'll have left!  The World is legit on fire rn, and each and every one of us is seeking some form of escape.  The funny thing is, you were ALL told precisely how to ride this one out by minding your own business...So why does it seem like we are flocking by the masses to do the EXACT  opposite?! I'm not a social media person; I will jump on every so often to check messages, and the temperature of the greater diaspora.  In essence, I have no algo rhythm😅!   So explain to me why I in the hot ham sandwich have I been bombarded with the latest waves of foolishness, and the flat out refusals to stay to ourselves👀?!  Oh I get it, ya'll are just gonna force  me to engage in filth?!  I've seen us out here arguing Bots down to the ground over people you don't even know ... ...

  QueenKhira.com has always been a place for you to come for self-discovery.  It's meant to encourage you, push your boundaries, and provide much-needed respite from the programming reality offers.  I wanted to infuse this idea into your everyday lives, to make it organically apart of your daily design.  With that, Our Sitewide theme was born, I'm Doing THIS, for ME...  I still try not to be amazed at the perfection of a synchronistic moment, it's truly a remarkable feeling.  To discover your desired state of being, and to be able to return to it, whenever you desire, is REAL magic.  Ladies and Gentleman, it's time to embrace it as the new norm.  It's time to relax into the natural ebb and flow of life, relinquishing to control we never truly had...and why the Hell not?!  What's the alternative, badgering myself into an anxiety-filled submission, heavy with self-pity and disappointment?!  Yea, No.   In all things, there is Cosm...

With the New Moon in Virgo last week, that means The Full Harvest Moon in Aries follows close behind in just 10 days.  It's the closest full moon to the Fall Equinox, earning it's title.  What better time to "harvest" the intentions set at past Moons...It's a time when you are at your most powerful energetically; Ideal  for manifesting the desires of your heart.  This phase of the Moon is most useful for: Purification Rituals for Renewal Sex Magic Divination Psychic Enhancement Spirit Work Love Drawing Justice Female Empowerment Ancestral Veneration Wish Fulfillment   The Moon, her fullest incarnation is represented by the Egyptian Goddess Isis; "The embodiment of fertility, abundance, and illumination."  The moon is in its most "powerfully feminine"  energy at this time.  It has the juice to make ANY  seeds planted flower.  With all that being said, IDK about ya'll, but I Need ALL of that!  Something I Swear by when it comes t...

  I don't know if you can feel it, but we are on our own right now...The Universe has said, "You've done enough, now Chill .  I'll take it from here."  Soooo much easier said then done!  Whe n the Universe says STOP, it means EVERYTHING- including Love.  As if we weren't all already out here in full panic; worried we will be spending our adult lives alone.  Now  the Universe is like, "Don't worry, I got this.  I'm not gonna tell you shit, just Trust.  In the meantime, take up a new hobby, I'll let you know when I'm ready.😁"    Immerse Yourself IN  Yourself...This is what the Universe is asking of us; to make ourselves and our needs the ONLY priority.  To the point where you can no longer stand your own company.  Oh don't worry bitches, I'm right here in this same boat of seemingly boredom-I digress; Self Love .  I'm determined to see this through; like when you're working out and ready to quit because you'r...

  Sometimes, we just have to sit Still...There is absolutely NOTHING to be done.  This place, my Loves, is by far one of the toughest destinations along our journey... One of the reasons we enjoy routine is because it provides a certain sense of comfort.  We welcome the known; it's a familiar friend...Whelp, you, just like me, chose MORE.  We couldn't leave well enough alone; and so, here we are!  On the glorious bright side, arriving at the "Pause", is a definite sign of progression😀.   We are now learning to shed the construct of TIME.  Just Stop.  Do not allow stress, anxiety, or the spirit of overwhelm force any action from you Ever  again.  Simply Chill .  That's it.  Know that the storm is raging OUTSIDE.  You are perfectly safe on the inside; with all you need until it passes. Only a Fool would go out in weather like that!  Instead, focus on the Present Moment.    Enjoy the warmth of the fi...

I woke up this morning ON MY SHIT!!!  I don't know it it's all this energy Mercury Retrograde has freed up, but I like it!!   I woke up wanting something new and different.  I'm ready for exactly what I deserve, and it's high time I got it, ALL OF IT!!  You know, I have just been feeling so detached from it all for so long, it was refreshing to wake up and be ready to ENGAGE with the world.  As a matter of fact, the 1st thing I did was run straight to a blank page to write this all down!  The sun was up to greet me; TODAY IS MINE!!! It's time to let go...all that is no longer serving our greater good is unwanted clutter.  It's time for the newness of life to come in, just as it does in Spring.  We change with the seasons.  I'm over the drabness of winter and all the things that died there.  I'm ready to LIVE!!  Today feels like a call to life that is just impossible to ignore.  Any and all things that are in...

Does anyone else wonder what happens when we sleep?  I have always been fascinated with the dream state, and its connection to our conscious lives.  We know that we dream; but what exactly is a dream?  My brain is so full throughout the day; constantly unfolding and rearranging thoughts every second of the day; therefore its hard to fathom that sleep is a mundane as to ONLY be providing rest to the body and mind...There has to be more to this process, and here are my thoughts on exactly what that is... Dream interpretation has long been a topic of discussion amongst the masses; since the beginning of time.  People have unceasingly sought council to determine what our subconscious mind is trying to say.  One thing can certainly be agreed upon, I DO think it is a means of communication with our higher selves.  Like meditation, it is a safe place to meet, and align our mental with our spiritual state.  The difference is, in a meditative s...

When I sit and think about all the times in a day when my answer to a request is "yes"; then cross-reference that with how many times I am saying that to myself , the statistics are drastically one sided...why is this?  For me to be the ultimate expert on all things Queen Khira, you would think that I would no doubt know exactly what she NEEDS ; so why are you denying yourself the power of " YES "?!  My answer in short, I thought that by fulfilling the needs of those around me, it would ensure my peace of mind, and their happiness would vicariously be my own.  This was a thought process that served me well; until it didn't...I slowly but surely became resentful, and started to feel like a servant, and nothing more.  I needed to figure out quick fast and in a hurry what the problem was, and FIX it IMMEDIATELY .   It is never a good thing, regardless of how must you love someone, to give everything you have and reserve nothing for yourself....

Necessity is defined as something vital to existence; and/or completion of a task.  So I beg the question: Are you doing what is NECESSARY for your own personal happiness?  I’ll take it one step further and inquire, “if so, are you implementing them every day, just as effortlessly as breathing?”  I’ll go ahead and assume the answer on your behalf... That would be a resounding NO!!  I can say this because I wasn’t either.  All I knew was that I was becoming increasingly irritated by people and things in my immediate environment.  Nothing had occurred to cause the sudden shift, and I had no “true” source for my discontent.  Arriving at an impasse, I took to meditation to have a”peak” inside myself, per se.  What I found was that I was not focusing on ANY of the little things that brought me JOY.  As a matter of fact, EVERYTHING that I normally did just to appreciate ME had fallen to the wayside.  This is why my higher self had BEE...

Are you familiar with the expression, “like the blind leading the blind”?  If not, it’s specifically referring to the phenomenon that occurs in which the person who is supposed to lead and be familiar with whatever the situation may be is just as oblivious as the individual seeking guidance.  Generally, the person who sought them out is so relieved to have someone else lead, they blindly follow.  Moreover, they ACCEPT the task and begin the false advisement process...WTF?!   This fuckery stops now.  I find it particularly corney that a person would rather follow behind anyone or anything based off the opinions of the so called “court of popular opinion”.  Look at that last statement and truly dissect it: Court -a place to be tried, convicted, and judged.   Popular -what is actively consumed by the masses and subject to change at a moments notice.   Opinion- an individual’s personal perspective of a particular situation and/or scenario; no...

Social Media is the Ultimate form of Virtual Reality... Everything we survey has been CHOSEN.  Handpicked, cultivated, and produced by the individual.  Every post meticulously crafted to the specifications of the creator.  I only see what you WANT me to see.  There is nothing “Real” about it.  It’s a place where you can be any version of yourself you so choose at any given moment; yet we have much less control in the creation process than we think... What is being created is actually being controlled by those exposed to the content.  What’s being put out is made specifically to ENTICE the audience; therefore, I am using that influence as the foundation of the DESIGN.  Each item curated and shared is in the hope that you will see it and PAY ATTENTION.  There is the rare “odd” individual that does not concern themselves with how much exposure their content gets; which still begs the question: Why?!  If you don’t care if it’s seen, wh...

This Moment, the one happening right now, is ALL that there is.  Allow me to explain... Yes, there is a past, things that have already happened.  What must be understood about these events is, once they happen, they are OVER.  It's gone.  If it is any point in time that you are not actively engaged in, that point does not currently exist.  The principle is also works on the inverse; anything that has yet to occur, has yet to come into existence , and should have absolutely NO bearing on what is currently happening to you. Our past is a experienced-based tool from which to learn and grow FORWARD.  It is not meant to trap us or the people in our lives, preventing our best lives from being brought to fruition.  If there is something behind you, LET IT GO.  Grasp the lesson and understand that there is no going back.  On the same note, we must also do the same when it comes to anticipation of events yet to come.  Being wrapped...

It's time to wrap our minds around the true power of imagination.  I know we have dabbled in past posts with visualization, and how our thoughts shape our reality.  We are now going to take the conversation to the next level, and begin to discuss what we are TRULY capable of... Our imaginations are the key to life itself.  There are numerous studies that address the indiscernible differences between what is ACTUALLY real, and what the mind perceives as so.  The brain's reactions to these two scenarios are identical. So what, Pray-Tell, does this mean? It means a young God has the capability to make ANYTHING happen!  Whatever I can imagine, I can make my reality.  As long as I can FEEl what it is I am seeing, as in the way I feel when I actually HAVE it; I have provided the Universe with all the materials necessary to set the creation process in motion...The Law of Attraction has now been alerted. It's ON like Popcorn! The next ste...

Let's be clear, the YOU I am referring to is the REAL you, your ESSENCE...What has you done lately to feed your SOUL?? Go ahead and ponder, I'll wait... As the most important part of who we are, what really makes us the people we are, it would stand to reason that we would focus ample time and attention towards its continued peace and happiness.  Sometimes we lose sight of the fact that we are spiritual beings having a physical experience, not the other way around.  The way we engage with the world reflects this key point.   It is your mortal obligation to properly excite and illuminate the soul.  It is your only purpose.  "Well, how do we know if its what my soul wants to do?!"  Oh trust me, YOU WILL KNOW!  Do you remember how it felt the first time you heard your favorite song?  That's the feeling you will experience every time you are doing something your soul would love.  It's a feeling you could get ADDICTED to....

Existing in a world where codependency is the norm, it comes as no surprise to me that we are never directed to first look within ourselves for the answers to some of life's biggest challenges and unanswered questions.  As a consumer in a capitalistic society, we are hardwired to seek solace in the comfort of others, retail therapy, or some other unnecessary over indulgence in an attempt to forget.  The funny thing is, these things are simply designed as a means to forget, not at all associated with the actual healing process,  which is essential to you being able to move on. People and vices are not answers, nor are they feelings.   What we are attempting to come to terms with in ANY situation, are the feelings behind it, and how they affect us.  There isn't another living soul on the planet with more experience on the subject of your feelings than YOU.  So why are we so quick to seek out the opinions of others on a subject it is impossible for th...

The  Universe  is all of space and time and their contents, including planets, stars, galaxies, and all other forms of matter and energy. While the spatial size of the entire  Universe  is still unknown, it is possible to measure the observable  universe . So with that being said, and you knowing that the ENTIRE Universe exists within us, why are you still focused on all the things you CAN'T do??👀 There is no such thing as "easing" your way into destiny, you were meant to jump in head first.  Even if you have no idea of where you want to go or what you want to do, just move in the direction your passions take you.  Your heart most certainly knows the way.  The most important thing is to MAKE A MOVE.   Dreams are specific to an individual for a reason, because they belong to YOU !    There isn't another soul in existence who is responsible for bringing your dreams to life.  As a matter of fact it's ...

The Universe has been talking, have you been LISTENING??!!👀  I sure have, and my entire existence has been set on FIRE!!!  Its been so amazing, the feeling is ALMOST indescribable.  In a prior post titled "Perfect, Just the Way It Is " https://myflylifeatversailles.blogspot.com/2018/07/perfect-just-way-it-is.html  , we began to scratch the surface of the concept that all is just as it should be, and our job as humans is to start conciously feeling our way through life.  Today its time to talk about just how its done... Formerly known as Queen Skeptic, you should know I need HARD EVIDENCE before I can hop on board.  One thing you don't do is challenge the Universe!  As soon as I started focusing on my own individual happiness, and putting Love into every negative thought, my soul was set aglow!!  Of course, me being Petty Betty, could NOT resist putting my superpowers to the test.  I stated to the Universe that each time I saw a star...

Life has been something special lately!  After a year filled with the moon showing out like it hasn't for centuries, it's amazing that any goddesses are left standing!👏  It's literally felt like all the craziness of the outside world decided to pay me a visit over the past several weeks and wreak havoc on every peaceful crevice I used to rely on for refuge.   What do we do on those days when it feels like the universe has turned its back on us? During what appeared to be a full on Tempest of BS, I needed a quiet.  I desperately needed to retreat to my Mind Palace and analyze this sh💥t storm piece by piece.  I started to pay attention to everything that was going on around me, particularly what was happening to the people in my everyday life.  EVERYONE was going THROUGH IT. When I took that much needed step back, I was able to discern what I was doing.  Instead of me focusing on the here and now, I was obsessing over hypothetic...

When it comes to love and relationships, I find the most frequently asked question is, “how do you make it LAST?!”  I always find this to be a particularly strange question, ESPECIALLY if you and your partner have been together for a significant amount of time.  You SHOULD know that person better than anyone else, and hold all the keys for success in that particular relationship.  Asking someone else how to keep your stuff together is like asking someone else to explain what you are feeling: ridiculous and damn near impossible. First and Foremost, I DO NOT, I REPEAT, DO NOT give relationship advice, nor do I insert myself into anybody’s personal situation, even when asked.  The reason being, whatever decisions you are arriving at concerning your mate are COMPLETELY yours to make, and whatever you decide will be YOUR life choice.  I want to be completely free from any repercussion that could potentially occur; you will NOT be blaming me for your poor decision mak...

I had an epiphany the other day... What if we put all the energy we expel on others that is foolishly wasted BACK into ourselves, our life dreams, and into creating the world we CHOOSE to live in??!! Before we all become hopelessly selfish and self-involved, re-read, and take in the thought in its ENTIRETY!!!  I am talking SPECIFICALLY in instances where your positive energy, time, and effort are not being reciprocated. There are so many situations we find ourselves in to which we develop an animosity of sorts towards those we are actively trying to help when we don’t feel that same energy being returned to us in one form or another.  Yet, we are taking umbridge with the wrong individual.  The person we should be focusing those feelings is right there waiting on the other side of the mirror.  That is who entangled you and your resources to an individual making moves to which your higher self is not in agreement.  This is who we should look to for...