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Oh Now You Know Me??


Its funny how the moment you stop giving your energy and attention to others, they all of a sudden remember you were in their lives.  I'm talking about those individuals so completely absorbed in themselves and the BS that surrounds their everyday lives.  Once you decide to put their mess down and focus on yourself, the sky parts for them and they begin a torrential downpour of guilt and negative feelings on you.

There is no need to feel crazy, this is VERY REAL, and very much NOT your problem to surmount.  The problem belongs to the individual, and what they need to be evaluating, especially if you hold some level of importance to them, is what happened to cause the change in the relationship.  It was obviously an unreciprocated situation.  What the person should be attempting to comprehend is how to give you what it was that was lacking in the relationship to begin with. 

It seems the hardest to get the support for our endeavors from those that we know and claim to care about about our well being.  The truth of the matter is, NO ONE can give you the level of love and attention needed for survival because, again, that comes from within.  You deciding to take your energy and focus it on yourself to heal and become the complete, beautiful person you were born to be is nothing to be ashamed of.   We definitely should NOT allow what the rejected individual has to say effect us, or give any validation to the fact that choosing YOU is always the right thing to do.  No matter how hard they try, or how much they believe it, there isn't a soul on the planet, not family member nor friend capable of restoring your peace or sanity lost while immersed in the next person's life and issues.  Tell whoever it is in your life who feels some type of way to have several seats and go back to being caught up, you're over here too busy growing into the God you were born to be.  If they refuse to take a back seat to your journey, then maybe, just maybe, they were meant to be left behind #Factsbro. ~The Queen~


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