Skip to main content

The Air Out There



It’s funny how when we start working on ourselves, we are able to Iyanla Vanzant anybody else’s situation.  Things that we may have never seen in an individual become SSOO clear, and we are able to execute just the right set of instructions to correct what we see.

Ok.  Then What?!!!

The results of this scenario are NOT beneficial to you in any capacity.  Why?  Because, while you are out here IVing folk’s lives, your process has been completely halted because you have taken the focus off of YOURSELF and YOUR self development.  Of course we want to be there for one another,  but we really must get more comfortable with what that concept IS.

Truly being there for someone is being an admirer of their true, most beautiful Self, and encouraging the person to stay in that path through your behavior and actions towards them.  If you have a friend who is a real star, then you should be showing them the most love and sharing your positive energy with them while they are in their best moments.  Show them how much this version of them means to you, and that you most enjoy them this way.  Not to say you care less when they are not at their best, but guess what, if everyone prefers, and shows them such, the absolute best version of that individual, then this will be who we begin to see more often then not.  Hopefully, in time, this may be the ONLY version of this person you see.

This is a defense mechanism.  Use this in an effort to protect your energy.  As I have said before, that spectacular, glowing light emminating from inside of you is your most precious commodity.  It is VITAL that you start looking for the good in your outside world and tap into it for your own benefit.  Everything
under the Sun has purpose for YOUR life.  Remember, you are Co-Creator, not the SOURCE.



Photo Source:

http://m.lovethispic.com/image/14858/wide-open-sky
Labels:

Comments

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

Crystals and Couture

  Those just might be my 2 favorite C words known to man!  With the start of a new year, it's only right I acquire a little bit of both!  I've had my eyes peeled for the past few weeks for all of the best sales; I had my heart set on a new piece of Rainbow Tourmaline and Rose Quartz(see below for crystal properties and uses if you aren't familiar!).  At the same time, I have also been dreaming of some new bags; crossbodys and a satchel, to be specific; a little on the fancy side though.  All of my work was not in vain because guess what?!  Marshall's is now carrying Badgley Mischka handbags and wallets-mike drop...but it gets even BETTER-not one item is priced over $29.99!!  Wait, What?!  Yes Please!!  Amazon has 1 lb of Raw Rainbow Tourmaline AND Rose Quartz for under $15.00.  I also came across a National Geographic Rock Polisher for $39.99!!  Your girl is absolutely THRILLED!!  What crystals do you have your eye on?!  Have you guys come up on any superstar purse deal
1 comment
Read more

You Only Owe YOURSELF

I had an epiphany the other day... What if we put all the energy we expel on others that is foolishly wasted BACK into ourselves, our life dreams, and into creating the world we CHOOSE to live in??!! Before we all become hopelessly selfish and self-involved, re-read, and take in the thought in its ENTIRETY!!!  I am talking SPECIFICALLY in instances where your positive energy, time, and effort are not being reciprocated. There are so many situations we find ourselves in to which we develop an animosity of sorts towards those we are actively trying to help when we don’t feel that same energy being returned to us in one form or another.  Yet, we are taking umbridge with the wrong individual.  The person we should be focusing those feelings is right there waiting on the other side of the mirror.  That is who entangled you and your resources to an individual making moves to which your higher self is not in agreement.  This is who we should look to for explanation and a game
Post a Comment
Read more

The Queen Iz Back!!!!

The Queen Iz Back I been gone for a min, now I'm back with tha jump off! As per my most recent tweet upon return from a much-needed disconnection to the digital era, sometimes you need to chill out, kinda disappear for a while when things don't seem to be going right. Its always a good idea to check yourself every once and a while. I'm glad I got that off my chest. With that bein said..... So, most recently, I had the most Preposterous experience at a downtown club that shall remain nameless for revenue liablity purposes. Ok, so I had had really long day of riding in the car, scouring the outlet in a frantic effort to prepare the Princess for this "kidnapping her paternal grandmother had concocted for the next 4 days. So naturally, after being lost on I-26 for about 45 min prior to arriving at the rendezvous point, I was in no mood to get fly and go hang out with the BKs. By no means was I about to punk out, so I sucked it up, found the most faboulous Farrah hair I hav
1 comment
Read more