It’s funny how when we start working on ourselves, we are able to Iyanla Vanzant anybody else’s situation. Things that we may have never seen in an individual become SSOO clear, and we are able to execute just the right set of instructions to correct what we see.
Ok. Then What?!!!
The results of this scenario are NOT beneficial to you in any capacity. Why? Because, while you are out here IVing folk’s lives, your process has been completely halted because you have taken the focus off of YOURSELF and YOUR self development. Of course we want to be there for one another, but we really must get more comfortable with what that concept IS.
Truly being there for someone is being an admirer of their true, most beautiful Self, and encouraging the person to stay in that path through your behavior and actions towards them. If you have a friend who is a real star, then you should be showing them the most love and sharing your positive energy with them while they are in their best moments. Show them how much this version of them means to you, and that you most enjoy them this way. Not to say you care less when they are not at their best, but guess what, if everyone prefers, and shows them such, the absolute best version of that individual, then this will be who we begin to see more often then not. Hopefully, in time, this may be the ONLY version of this person you see.
This is a defense mechanism. Use this in an effort to protect your energy. As I have said before, that spectacular, glowing light emminating from inside of you is your most precious commodity. It is VITAL that you start looking for the good in your outside world and tap into it for your own benefit. Everything
under the Sun has purpose for YOUR life. Remember, you are Co-Creator, not the SOURCE.
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