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Happiness on Your Terms



If you are down, what turns it around for you?  Is it music, fresh air, the company of positive people etc?!  But is it really ANY of those things that hold the true power for change?

You know, I find myself the most happy when I am staying TRUE TO MYSELF.  What I find most painful in life is having to endure and live up to the expectations of others.  Oftentimes this can lead to the pursuit of things and opportunities that we are less than passionate about.  

Anne Shirley Cuthbert helped to put me back on track the other day by speaking some of the truest words I have ever heard.  In a nutshell, she said personal success is a guarantee as long as you are in “Pursuit of your Passion”.  Beautiful alliteration aside, this is soooo real.  If you are in perfect sync with what it is you want in life, REGARDLESS of outside influence and what is said, then why is it that you’re NOT the captain of your LIFE vessel?!!

FEAR???

I say this with three question marks because it’s being presented as a question, NOT a FACT.  Facts don’t change.  Facts do not alternate and transform into different ideas.  Fear is a state of mind that can be changed...

Let go of the mentality of failure and take responsibility for your own happiness and the fruition of your dreams.  Sink or Swim, it’s YOUR choice.  Do not let “the air out there” be the final determination of who you are, what you become, and most importantly, the pursuit of your HAPPINESS.  Keep loving yourself, building your mental arsenal, and ENJOYING each breath...learn to FLY.~The Queen~

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