“No one can love YOU like YOU can, it’s impossible. When we start to embrace that and live our lives with this purpose in mind, maybe, just maybe, we will begin to understand exactly what it takes to be a twin flame.”
In Chinese philosophy, yin and yang (/ˈjɪn ˈjɑːŋ/; Chinese: 陰陽 yīnyáng, lit. "dark-bright", "negative-positive") describes how seemingly opposite or contrary forces may actually be complementary, interconnected, and interdependent in the natural world, and how they may give rise to each other as they interrelate to one another. Many tangible dualities (such as light and dark, fire and water, expanding and contracting) are thought of as physical manifestations of the duality symbolized by yin and yang. This duality lies at the origins of many branches of classical Chinese science and philosophy, as well as being a primary guideline of traditional Chinese medicine,[1] and a central principle of different forms of Chinese martial arts and exercise, such as baguazhang, taijiquan (t'ai chi), and qigong (Chi Kung), as well as appearing in the pages of the I Ching.
Source: Wikipedia In a relationship, you are not allowed to have had a significant prior to your current one. As a partner, you are not allowed to make mistakes. As a partner, you are not allowed to stressed out. As a partner, you are a PERFECT machine. You have no needs, desires, interests, independent thoughts, or identity.
This is the way we function in our relationships. We completely lose ourselves in an effort to complete the other person. Have you ever noticed that? I say WE because both men and women are guilty of this atrocity. This is so emotionally detrimental. Loss of self means the absence of VITAL energy from that relationship, it cannot survive without energy from both sources. After all, a relationship does contain 2 persons, does it not??!!👀
YOU ARE SOMEBODY. You are allowed to listen to what you want, watch what you want, eat what you want, and it shouldn’t be something a significant other seeks to change about you(unless of course any of these things are to your detriment!) That shit is bogus. You were an entire person w/ thoughts and feelings prior to becoming the "better half" of this relationship, so why should that change when you do?
Men and women are designed differently and meant to fulfill their individual roles to make the complete whole. It is us recognizing that our differences are actually what makes the relationship special. By embracing our strengths, we are able to improve on each other’s weaknesses the right way, creating the healthy give and take missing from so many relationships. Just fulfilling who you were meant to be is the catalyst your love life is waiting for; Just imagine the possibilities...🤔
We are separate people for a reason.
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